For Cheaters Only: How to Get Over Your Affair
During my recovery (Yes, I was in love with my girlfriend and getting over her took nearly 2 years) I searched for answers, ideas, and inspiration to guide me on the path of righteousness and virtue. The guilt had boiled over, my self-esteem was shot and to make matters worse, I capped off the affair with a bankruptcy and foreclosure. Can anyone spell, “Midlife Crisis?” It was interesting to note that while there were scores of books on getting over, through and beyond an affair, 100% of those books were oriented toward the person who was betrayed and not the betrayer. I had no help getting over my feelings. I guess punishment for being a schmuck was that I had to go it alone. I certainly wasn’t getting any assistance from the self help section at Barnes & Noble.
Here are a few thoughts to consider on your road to commitment and recovery from an affair. Sex. Thoughts of the incredible sex and connection with a mistress cannot be ignored. Don’t ignore it. Your experience can be used to rekindle a NEW connection with your wife. Tell your wife what you like, what you don’t like and be very clear about your needs and fantasies. My girlfriend and I had a few threesomes during our wild 3 year ride. My wife had no interest in those activities. My solution was to create fantasy women to take the place of a live body.
As long as you don’t mention real names and are 100% honest with your fantasy, you will derive about 90% of the same satisfaction as the real thing.
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