3 Proven Successful Parenting Keys

Validation is more about showing through action how important your child is over anything else you can imagine.Accountability is in the middle of the list because this is the "boundary teacher." All children welcome boundaries because it gives them a measuring point to know where not to go in their decision making. As a parent you must fully explain the rules, regulations, and guidelines along with the consequences for each violation if not followed. The areas that most parents seem to go wrong in is making sure your child understands by having them repeat back to you exactly what was said and what is expected.Why must you do this, you ask? This step is crucially important because you will be utterly surprised at how the information that you so poignantly stated, gets lost in translation in a child's mind based on a symptom I refer to as "I thought you meant this, when you made that statement..." This step will be priceless when it comes to handing out the consequence actions or punishment. You should always follow through with the consequence action or punishment to show consistency for respecting the rules you have laid down. When their faces change and angry shows up, just remind them that is was their poor choices that put them in that particular predicament. This step helps them to fully understand why they should fix their facial expressions quickly and to make sure that they are not attempting to get mad at the wrong person.Now it's time for the great tension breaker of the big hug or some form of affection while reinforcing that you love them and are not mad at them, just disappointed in the particular choice that was made.

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